tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post3698673123274717888..comments2023-07-25T01:56:46.725-07:00Comments on Romance and Relationship: Love Vs. LustBWtamedKenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04075473150792789169noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-57518198438422052352008-07-12T21:18:00.000-07:002008-07-12T21:18:00.000-07:00Very nice post!Very nice post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-72174606652917434832008-07-07T07:04:00.000-07:002008-07-07T07:04:00.000-07:00This is my first visit here but very insightful po...This is my first visit here but very insightful post.<BR/><BR/>I think I have loved, but after consideration I am sure I have not received love in return. You can love someone and not have them give the same kind of love in return. Often times, you find out too late that their love is deep lust masked as the real thing.<BR/><BR/>Great post...gives a lot to think about.KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-68535499688942817292008-07-06T00:41:00.000-07:002008-07-06T00:41:00.000-07:00Jenna said... "Hey Ken! You've been tagged."Hey Je...Jenna said... <BR/>"Hey Ken! You've been tagged."<BR/><BR/>Hey Jenna, <BR/>Tagged??? like school yard tag or what?BWtamedKenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04075473150792789169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-5845182254908820512008-07-04T21:44:00.000-07:002008-07-04T21:44:00.000-07:00Hey Ken! You've been tagged.Hey Ken! You've been tagged.jynneferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02389218084939769242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-60022403673622470142008-07-01T20:00:00.000-07:002008-07-01T20:00:00.000-07:00I have to tell you that this was beautifully, beau...I have to tell you that this was beautifully, beautifully written. It was too much for me to read in one sitting. I'll have to keep coming back.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-80386644814845701952008-06-27T08:13:00.000-07:002008-06-27T08:13:00.000-07:00NO, what I meant was that I'm glad that there is a...NO, what I meant was that I'm glad that there is a guy out there that understands the difference between love and lust.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-8876184150442187582008-06-25T15:03:00.000-07:002008-06-25T15:03:00.000-07:00Hi Ken, this is an answer to your question reagard...Hi Ken, this is an answer to your question reagarding divorce:<BR/>it was very easy for me since he was physically and emotionally abusive! The day I divorced the ex, my heart soared once again toward the sky and I never looked back!!! Ironically, my ex and I are very good friends now, due forgiveness and straightforward communication in regards to our children. He's on his 3rd marriage and I doubt that I ever want to be tied down to man again within the bounds(chains) of matrimony.Peace!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-23023618344670817072008-06-24T19:14:00.000-07:002008-06-24T19:14:00.000-07:00Hello all, thank you all for your comments.Alexis ...Hello all, <BR/>thank you all for your comments.<BR/><BR/>Alexis sky- thanks for your information and I hope you found some one who makes every day easier and sweeter. as i hope for every one but sadly we sometimes get the hard road. <BR/>I think My Queen and I are very lucky to have one another, she has saved me from getting tied down with some one who does not love me so I may fly with some one who does. she is the best woman I know and I hope to be with her very soon God Willing.<BR/><BR/>Pirouette said... <BR/>"Very insightful post. It's a lot to digest. I need to reread this one! Thanks!"<BR/><BR/>my reply..<BR/>I hope it's not to over the top.<BR/><BR/><BR/> S.S. said... <BR/>This is a lot to digest and read here. Glad somebody out there gets it.<BR/><BR/>my reply...<BR/>Hey S.S what do you not understand? I hope I can clarify.<BR/><BR/>Hello Felicity,<BR/>thank you for your comment. I wonder how many people go threw almost the same thing. Thanks for your input and devulging this I know it could not be easy.<BR/><BR/><BR/>For those of you who have gone threw a devorce, how did you get over your ex's? just curious.BWtamedKenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04075473150792789169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-20685677225279077522008-06-24T02:53:00.000-07:002008-06-24T02:53:00.000-07:00Very insightful post, I was married for seven year...Very insightful post, I was married for seven years and although I waited until I married to have sex, I realise that my ex husband was only interested in my physically. He would hardly talk to me, but only when he wanted sex. I realise that I was not happy, I started to get old from the stress and the disappointment. I had to ask God to end my marriage, it was my ex-husband who told me that he no longer wanted me, divorce was painful, I cried and some of my relatives were very angry, that I divorced. I realised that throughout the engagement, God was showing me, not to marry my husband, our relationship was so difficult. I realise when you are in the stream of a good relationship, things just flows, you do get hiccup now and then, but there is peace and I realise that there was never any peace i our marriage. I have come to realise there are many good decent man out there and good women also, but we must realise that we are children of the most High God and we deserve the very best in our in all aspects of our life and we are supposed to have marriages made in heaven. In our lifetime, we are supposed to bring heaven here on earth. Thank you so much for that.Felicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02640532435058567373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-87222303156314217942008-06-23T10:06:00.000-07:002008-06-23T10:06:00.000-07:00This is a lot to digest and read here. Glad somebo...This is a lot to digest and read here. Glad somebody out there gets it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-86021454788003118722008-06-23T05:34:00.000-07:002008-06-23T05:34:00.000-07:00Very insightful post. It's a lot to digest. I ne...Very insightful post. It's a lot to digest. I need to reread this one! Thanks!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10608592479497561349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3047156871967244523.post-49836408952791427442008-06-22T17:14:00.000-07:002008-06-22T17:14:00.000-07:00“LUST BACKS OUT WHEN IT'S NO LONGER CONVENIENT.”So...“LUST BACKS OUT WHEN IT'S NO LONGER CONVENIENT.”<BR/><BR/>Soo true! I learned this the hard way after I refused give my virginity to a guy I had a 4-year online long-distance relationship with. <BR/><BR/>I gave myself to him emotionally (which ended up being very painful) -- but he wanted me PHYSCIALLY and always went great lengths to remind me of it. By the 3rd year, he grew tired of “waiting” for me to give ALL of myself (physically) and walked away, dating/seeking loose woman. <BR/><BR/>Now, looking back, I am so glad I never met this guy let alone sleep with him. Once I ended things, I finally began to see him for what he REALLY WAS as opposite to who I THOUGHT he was. <BR/><BR/>Praise God - though God gave me many warnings (by instincts/holy spirit) about the guy, despite the fact I refused to listen (rationalized instead) at the time. Now I know of the wisdom of listening to your "gut" and never ignoring the warning signs when one sees it.<BR/><BR/>But I totally agree with everything you posted in your blog. 100%. You clearly outlined the differences between love and lust clearly. Wish there were more MEN out there like you out there in the world. Your QUEEN is one very lucky woman :-D!Alexis Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10077157638737268437noreply@blogger.com